marriage proposal

Last nite as time tic toc away, i was asked how many times i have been proposed to. I have dated an Asian engineer, an Asian computer geek, an Asian surgeon, a Caucasian scientist and now a Hispanic contractor/artist. I find something unique about an individual and go with the flow. If the chemistry is nice it goes on for over a year; at other times it is not feasible and must stop it after 3months.
Somehow, the peacefulness of a person resonates ( i have met 3 such individuals). They understand we are on a journey of life. We are meant to experience and savor each other. We explore life together and respect each others wishes. We go out and have coffee, sit and chit chat; we are invited into each others homes, to share meals with family members. We share the daily struggles of work and family life. We laugh over past mistakes. We enjoy the presence of the soul.
The soulful person knows who he or she consists of, what their roots are, and they are not afraid to discover life. They bring harmony and peace to their surroundings. Peeps elevate to them, because they are gentle and kind and understand and nurture the souls of others.

Changing Artform

There is no right way and wrong way to go thru life, but there is your way...expression of who you really are...without hurting and weighing on the hurt of others...we are asked to find out who we are...what is the meaning of my life...growing and changing...i cannot help it as the world shapes me into who i am...finding your roots and your family and what motivates us...And yet, this sense of the exoticness is why one becomes attracted to Asian culture and art. "It's so simple, yet it's able to express so much," "to explore the mentality of the people who produced this great art." Asian paintings are a meditation on the deeper things of life.
My mother used to say, "Know who you are, look inside, find the roots and what you are meant to be-be it a rose or a lotus, only then can you grow upward."
The simple art of drawing with a paintbrush, listening to nature, carving wood into shapes, meditating to your own breathing, find peace from within to deal with the problems of daily life. Enjoy each others company, and if they move on, know what once was.