I am me

Scientific reasoning...trying to surmise the situation into something that reasonable, in other words, what makes sense.
The experimental objective: to jump off the fence and join a team.
Certain observations:
1) Hormonally, you change: your voice, your gestures, your body and looks. If I am with a guy, i become sweet and adoring, holding his arms and hands, feeling his muscles, looking to him for guidance and support; dressing the part. If I am with a girl, I become dominating and controlling, sarcastic and challenging. I wear more pants, and sit accordingly. I take on a masculine role. I am attracted to femme.
2) Emotional connection, physical attraction. Do I fall in love more easily with a man or a woman? Is there trust and respect more with a man than a woman? Do I safe and secure more with a man than a woman? Does my heart flutter and skips a beat whenever I smell or see her more than him? Do I connect emotionally more with a woman than a man?
3) Traditional role playing: wife, mother, housekeeper, vs. worker, supporter, provider. Acceptance of self and by others ie society, family, friends, coworkers.