Fire + Earth = Lava

Your outgoing Sagittarian temperament is really quite different from that of Capricorn.

You have an open, optimistic and straightforward nature that tends to take things as they come. You always believe that life will bring you the best, and even when things are not going your way, you still believe that the tide will turn in your favour.

Capricorn is regarded as a cold, constrictive and often inward-looking planet. Many, but not all, Capricorns have a more conservative nature than you and aren’t as optimistic as you. So you’ll need to give Capricorn time to feel relaxed with you. Then they will show you another side of their character. But bear in mind that at first they might feel overpowered by your sunny disposition — they could end up judging their own character against yours. You are adventurous, and love freedom, so sport — anything to do with the outdoors, really — is right up your alley. This is another area where Capricorn is likely to be far more cautious than you.

But equally, if you come together with a Capricorn you to will need to take into account the ambitious and practical side of their character. If you’re a patient Sagittarian, you might like to take the reserved Capricorn under your wing and draw them out so that they can have a taste of how the other half lives. And Capricorns are receptive. They might warm to your outgoing ways and join you in your escapades.

Don’t dismiss Capricorn as a probable partner. Your sexual chemistry with Capricorn might not be as hot and passionate as you’d like at first. If you take your time to explore Capricorn, they will eventually satisfy you.

Basically, you’ll have to work hard to bring them up to your expectations, but it will be worth the effort.

Capricorns born between 2 January and 10 January are far more emotional and sensual than those born earlier. There’s a chance you’ll be more attracted to this group. If you are with a Capricorn born between 22 December and 1 January, you’re not too likely to experience hot passion up front. They are earthy types who need time and persuasion to come around to your way of thinking. Capricorns born between 11 January and 20 January will offer you very stimulating times, including a lot of humour.

Be aware, though, that the Capricorn humour is dry and sometimes a little cynical — if that’s your bag, you should have some good times with them.

Last nite at the Cafe

So we (Debbie and I) went out to dinner in the Castro, Osaka sushi(5/21). Not sure if its a date.
She came down from Napa and I drove in for work and then to the Castro. We had dinner and talked about family life, rock climbing, etc...the more i looked at her the more beautiful she becomes. She has very strong shoulders, so protective. Her fingers are long and calloused from rock climbing. Her face and hair is sporty and feel of the outdoor. I wanted to reach out and kiss her outdoorsy lips. I wanted to slide in and have her hold me like she did on the dance floor.

After a few sake drinks i was tipsy, so i put my arm through hers as we walked to the cafe; she asked me what i want from a relationship, given all my experiences. I told her, i want it all, romance and love, high standards.

We met up with Melanie and walked around the dead bar. I played a brief game of pool, while she walked around checking out the place some more.

From our conversations I found out she is not over her ex. She is a romantic-she believes in love at first sight. She doesnt do one nite stand. She likes sushi and beer. She is 32. Her dob is Jan 4. each year she celebrates it in a different country, like in Brazil, Costa Rica, or Chicago, where she has a loyal set of friends that she misses. She plays the cello and viola. She bikes and rock climbs.

Melanie said that nite at Delicious, Debbie checked out the cafe and only found me "hot" so she asked me to dance. :))))) Does she still thinks i am hot?

I wonder what she thinks of me, more than a friend? Asian-submissive and educated.
Do we connect on another level, emotional level? Does she get me? Do I get her? Do we connect and communicate well when we share? Is she annoyed by anything i say?

All i can do is play it by ear for now. let her make the next move. wait to see if she will call me tonite. i hope she invites me to her house, so we can have dinner and be romantic.

How to keep her interested

What do i find attractive about a girl? what is a girl looking for?
She smells nice, is clean, dresses all-together. She cares how she looks.
She is a good dancer. She understands rhythm.
When she walks into the room, people turn around. She is confident.
She speaks intelligently, can lead a conversation with any subject matters. She is well read.
She is funny and cocky, life of the party. She has a sense of humor.
She is not rude or insensitive to others feelings. She is sensitive and self aware.
She doesnt say mean things, manipulate a situation for her own benefit. She is above it.
She is well mannered and speaks English correctly and does not mumble. She understand lang.
She is well grounded and down to earth. She is not pompous and pretentious.

Past Weekend

On Friday nite I stayed home with Billy watching some films on netflix. Saturday I was suppose to go biking but Jen cancelled; so I spent it in the garden. Saturday evening i moseyed into the city to have dinner with Rachael and go to the Cafe for the Delicious Dance. It started casual enough, meeting Rachael's friend Carrie and dancing with them.

Then she came along. Out of nowhere she introduced herself. I was impressed by her forwardness. We danced for hours talking and getting to know each other. We danced closer and closer, until we kissed. I can still feel her lips and tongue on mine. Feeling her neck and her back. Her arms and shoulders. Her back and her body rubbing against mine. Yeah truly dirty dancing.

At 1230am she says she has to leave but wanted to give me her no. (again i am impressed by her honesty) Mostly what happens on the dance floor stays there. We know it doesnt go anywhere, its not like we will ever going to meet again. But she is different, genuine.

I couldnt sleep that nite, all I could think was her face, her hair, her eyes, her neck, her lips, her body against mine. I waited until the following evening to call her. I am stunned to find out she is selling her house in Napa and going back to Chicago. I have no luck with women. When I find one who is decent and kind, she is moving out of the area.

We talked for hours, i never felt so open and honest with anyone. She is accepting and nonjudgmental. Such a straight shooter. I want more than a one nite stand with her. I asked her if i could come up to Napa to see her soon. I want to know more about her.

She is so beautiful, inside and out. *sigh* She is intelligent, open and honest, funny and playful.

How do I get her to like me and fall for me? How can I emotionally connect with her? What makes a person stay attracted to another person? Personality, looks, words, actions. Respect and love. I want her.