Well, i am deciding if i should be gay?
do i act the part, femme on the streets, butch in the sheets?
diu dang and femme with makeup and heels?
or should i wear jeans and t-shirt with boots?
holding hands and aware of her partner physical and emotional needs?
the look. the coolness. the hotness. the control.
Friday, June 06, 2008
What is a true friend?
Friendship is...
1. when you are happy, i will share your joys.
2. when you are mad, i will jump on the person like a spider monkey jacked up on mtndew.
3. when you are sad, i will apologize and make you laugh to forget about it.
4. when you are lonely, i will comfort you with soothing words so you will be emotionally connected again.
5. when you are scared, i will hold your hands and make you feel protected.
6. when you are worried, i will do research, find solutions, and dissipate your worries.
7. when you are confused, i will explain things to you, without making you feel bad.
8. when you are sick, i will take care of you, sit next to you until you feel better.
9. when you fail, i will lift you up and ask how i can help you to succeed.
10. when you feel no hope, peace or love, i will restore your virtues in humanity.
Friendship is loyalty, responsibility, respect, kindness, and having fun together. When we reach out to one another we touch and give warmth to others hands and hearts.
1. when you are happy, i will share your joys.
2. when you are mad, i will jump on the person like a spider monkey jacked up on mtndew.
3. when you are sad, i will apologize and make you laugh to forget about it.
4. when you are lonely, i will comfort you with soothing words so you will be emotionally connected again.
5. when you are scared, i will hold your hands and make you feel protected.
6. when you are worried, i will do research, find solutions, and dissipate your worries.
7. when you are confused, i will explain things to you, without making you feel bad.
8. when you are sick, i will take care of you, sit next to you until you feel better.
9. when you fail, i will lift you up and ask how i can help you to succeed.
10. when you feel no hope, peace or love, i will restore your virtues in humanity.
Friendship is loyalty, responsibility, respect, kindness, and having fun together. When we reach out to one another we touch and give warmth to others hands and hearts.
Thursday, June 05, 2008
DOA 1950
Someone introduced me to film noire done in the 1940 and 1950s. So I watched DOA (Dead on Arrival) written by Rouse and Greene and directed by Rudolph Mate last nite online. It is a suspenseful movie about a dead man, poisoned by iradium, and has a week to discover the whos and whys. This one hour and 23min long movie shows us that at the end of the day, when we pass away, the awareness of what is really important to us, comes through. Love and gratitude. Kindness and touches.
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
Discovery
When one stops looking and appreciate what one has, it is better for the mind. I do not expect to meet anyone. I do expect to keep the friendships I value with small touches and hugs.
When you have friends, you must nurture it and take care of them. Lino's birthday. I sent him a small note. Vincent is leaving for South America, I want to throw him a bon voyage party. Agathes birthday, I bought her something I know she will like and use. Robin's front yard work done with friendship. Taking time in the morning to say hi to Yun and see how Crystal is doing. Calling up Angelina and wishing her a happy birthday. Taking Thuy out to dinner when she is not happy with her ex husband. Spending time with Penny at the baseball game last nite.
When we stop and take care of the emotions and needs of others, we become more human. We understand what it takes to build a solid relationship. We need constant reassurance. We need constant touches. We look into the lives of others and partake in it. We become a family.
When you have friends, you must nurture it and take care of them. Lino's birthday. I sent him a small note. Vincent is leaving for South America, I want to throw him a bon voyage party. Agathes birthday, I bought her something I know she will like and use. Robin's front yard work done with friendship. Taking time in the morning to say hi to Yun and see how Crystal is doing. Calling up Angelina and wishing her a happy birthday. Taking Thuy out to dinner when she is not happy with her ex husband. Spending time with Penny at the baseball game last nite.
When we stop and take care of the emotions and needs of others, we become more human. We understand what it takes to build a solid relationship. We need constant reassurance. We need constant touches. We look into the lives of others and partake in it. We become a family.
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