moments you cannot control

my parents' destiny of tragedy:
when my mother left us, it was my 2nd year in college. i did not know what had unfolded or how long it has been going on. our world turned upside down.
now the tragedy strikes again. this time, it's my father's. it unfolded two years ago. i found out end of March 2011. all i can do is hire a lawyer, and pray for the best.
something went tragedically wrong when they got married. the kids were just product of lost souls. can or should we make amends for the doings of our parents? will the cycle of tragedy repeat itself in the child?

you look down a dark tunnel and no one is there. your eyes get used to the darkness and you find your way by touching the walls (friends). you keep mentally alert and watch and listen. hoping that you dont stumble and fall into a pit that opens up.